There may be differences of opinion and disagreement, but if the reasons for the sadness arise from the home, then that sadness is eternal. If the other person hurts, it is tolerated, accepted, but the heart is burned by the contempt and neglect of one’s own people. If there is no respect, if respect does not survive, or the door of trust is locked, then that relationship is no longer good. Apart from showing love, love goes if the heart wants it. But when the suffering increases, then sadness comes even more. People who understand the world but do not understand the mind, people who think about everything but do not look for a home – there is suffering in their lives.
A mind that has turned to stone due to the arrogance of neglect does not shoot arrows of complaint. Those who have endured pain, those who have understood the customs or those whose words have died, live only to survive. Some do not even live for themselves. The family does not support many – yet they do not cut the thread just because they have children. For fear of losing the family’s value. The wounds of the heart cannot be shown to society, anxiety cannot be explained to anyone – the ocean of sadness flows endlessly in the heart. Even in his own guise, a person who hurts others, listens to their words, or breaks their hearts with neglect – does a person even think about the consequences of this? Does he know what is going to happen in life?
The pain that a person gives to a distant person is a two-day pain. But the one who hurts even after settling in the mind, speaks bitter words, or sheds tears – why doesn’t he understand the mind? – The question arises. Even with strong differences of opinion, one can live together if there is respect in the relationship. One can sit next to others if there is trust. One can talk if one listens attentively. If interests are not the main factor in determining the relationship but only a place of happiness, then a person lives with his heart and soul. However, a person laughs and shoots arrows at the heart, kills the will to live with each blow, enjoys the sting, or breaks the trust and suppresses dreams and desires. How can a person become such a stone?
We don’t keep track of how many people are together but their hearts are not filled with love – we don’t know what society will say, what people will think – we don’t know how many houses are left with this shame. But it could have been saved in a different way. We could have lived in harmony with respect. We could have lived together without keeping people in cages. If we respected people’s wishes, let their dreams come true or fulfilled their desires, there would have been no spark in the ocean of happiness. Everyone is running around for their own interests. They make loved ones and leave them again when necessary. They forget the familiar path. Familiar people are becoming strangers. It’s like a puppet show is going on across the state. Who is doing what, why is it doing it – there is no accounting.
How long does a person live? As long as he lives, he can live all the days well if he has good will. For this, he has to maintain respect and trust in his relationship. He has to leave the mentality of enjoyment and follow the path of sacrifice. If the complaints do not decrease, it is difficult to live well. He has to draw a line between satisfaction and affordability. If you don’t understand the language of pride, if you don’t search for what’s going on in your mind, you will end up in trouble day after day. You have to remember that if you don’t value people in your days of ability, no one will appreciate you in your days of inability. There is no one more important than your home, and there can be none. You have to live with a strong desire to accept and adapt without giving your home a bad name to others. Only then will you be sure to be well.
