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Forgive your enemy, free yourself

Syed Azam

Forgive your enemy, free yourself

If I list all my enemies for the rest of my life, how many names will the list contain? The diary on your table is at most three pages long? But there are hundreds of thousands of millions of people in the world! And I am lying down with only two enemies. Why do you waste your good time thinking about bad people? If the damage done to you by the enemy is such that you are finished, then I am not asking you to forgive, but if the enemy teaches you something, you do not have to cry by making you stronger or getting involved in some new temptation – life teaches you this lesson, then close your eyes now and forgive in one breath. Only then will your time start to be spent well. You have to let the clouds pass – either by bringing rain or by burning in the sun! You do not have to wrap yourself in inhumanity!

We think unnecessarily about someone, create imaginary enemies and lose our peace! What is the need? Those who disturb your life, who are in the way of living well – cut off the branches. Make a clean account, settle the debts and pay off the debt. The lover whom they thought they could not live without – they both live better now. No one is an inevitable complement to anyone. A complement appears for good. If you keep yourself pure, you will not have to wait for the equinox for clean air. Control yourself – Saturday will be yours too. In a world where there is no dearth of friends, will you remember your enemies? Have I been prevented? Surely you have not been prevented either!

At the end of the day, stand in front of the mirror, think for two minutes in solitude – what you have done, what you have said – was it out of responsibility or out of revenge. Do not hurt anyone unnecessarily. Avoid ego, burn your pride and erase lies and move on. No one will have the power to stop you. Someone can poke, someone can poke – ignore it if it seems unnecessary. Even the devil cannot tolerate being ignored! It is not possible to bind and suppress you without falling into the trap. Honesty has power and fragrance. Morality protects the upright. If you have never cheated anyone, you will not cheat either – keep faith. Do good deeds, speak well – you will live in the hearts of people with respect. This is very important.

A smiling face carries the beauty of a person. Purity of thought, purity of character illuminates the surroundings overshadowing the external. It shows the path of truth. If someone upsets you, ignore them, avoid them. You are right – do not decide by measuring it only with your own yardstick. Examine the stick of religion, the stick of law, the customs of society and impartially what is right and wrong. It is important to have this feeling that I can also make mistakes. Therefore, when you are sorry, when you apologize, a person becomes bigger to others; he does not become smaller.

So that there is trust in the circle of friendship. It is logical to avoid those who are identified as having a harmful character. If you forgive without harboring enmity, it brings goodness to the light of life. If necessary, I did not mix with you, I did not say what was on my mind, but still, so that no one is under my curse. May my name not be written in someone’s curse-sigh. In order to be good, one must give priority to desire. Selling oneself to save someone’s mind will not be an intellectual act. Because a healthy person, a normal conscience, does not have the patience to protect the greed of someone’s mentality. It is important to always have the company of good people. May life be beautiful.

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