Teach children Han, Tan, but adults have a lot to learn! – No one says that! If adults are not idealistic, if they are not good characters, children will not learn anything good in life! If there is light in family education, children will learn the good things on their own!
Then poverty and nobility, politeness and rudeness – none of them need to be taught separately. Children imitate more than they follow! What you say in the bedroom, children say when they come out! They are so simple! The character they show at home is the character they show outside! Children are so brave!
How you treat your husband, how you behave with your wife, how you view your in-laws – children learn all this very carefully! The crookedness that you suffer from also infects them!
You cannot teach children anything by acting. Your child imitates exactly what you do in reality. If you greet your elders, your child will also learn to greet! If you call someone a slut, your child will also call others a slut! If your tongue is a warehouse of vulgarity, then your child’s mouth will be a factory of vulgarity! You will get the characteristics of the product that you give to the glassware.
Family education is more important for children than institutional education. If the parents are good, there are very few cases in this society where the child goes astray! Some say that the children of teachers rarely go astray! – If the teacher is idealistic!
You change, your children will change. Don’t take bribes, don’t corrupt, don’t cheat people, don’t take away people’s rights! Don’t put the poison of haram in your child’s body! After that, you don’t have to do anything else! Children in nature’s school will grow up to be human beings! There is no need to be tense about what to teach your child!
Give more charity in front of children. Praise others in children’s gatherings. Keep faults hidden. Children will learn all this. If you respect someone, your child will also respect him. If you lie, they will lie. Parents are institutions for their children. So help children develop as human beings.
No matter how much you teach what you don’t know, even if you blend it in, nothing will come of it. A child can rarely go beyond your character – if he grows up in an orphanage, it is a different matter! But if he is in contact with you, he will surpass you! Be it for the good or the bad of the original!
The child will be a shadow of what you are. Whatever you do will flow in your blood! If you are a real human being, your child will not be a non-human. Just be careful that your child does not fall into bad company! Does not get addicted to any addiction! Only then will your child become a human being. You will also be proud of your child’s identity. If you are good, your child is bound to be good! – That is what society has depicted in the picture!
