Instead of being good by comparing yourself with others, you have to suffer incomparable suffering. Because we don’t want to be as miserable as anyone in comparison. So our goal is happiness. But every unhappiness is an obstacle to reach the destination of happiness. Can you be better compared to someone? We get as much as we are allotted by combining our efforts and the plan of the Almighty.
But when we want more than we can, go to blind imitation of evil or lose ourselves in the place where my misfortune is, then the story of heartache appears. If I see the outward shine of my friends, observing the dharam-mahram of my neighbors or the love shown by my relatives, I die with my forehead that why is there such a drought in my life. But the mental illness will start from there.
I want—that is not the ultimate determinant of getting, but a great planner determines the good for me to give or not to give. With bad times he makes good times a field of enjoyment, he tests with tribulations to make them faithful and patient, and increases blessings with gratitude. So if you want to be good compared to someone, you may feel sad.
Because you are you and I am me. When the allocation of fate, the ability to strive and the proximity of happiness come in a straight line, then Jupiter enters the life. Time and timelessness run parallel here. For what is not in your destiny, even if you march and meet, you will not get it, even if you dig your forehead, you will not get it. All the energy invested will be wasted. If the desire reaches the wrong address, the sorrow will increase; Rather lower the level of grievances and reign in the kingdom of higher happiness.
Whatever I lose will come back in a different way—keeping this sense alive will lessen the intensity of grief. I will be made to feel the emptiness of what I have not, differently than what others have. Wealth cannot guarantee happiness. Happiness is in peace of mind. It is possible to be happy even on the treetop, to be happy without clothes, if a qualitative change in the philosophy of life is initiated. The simplicity of life is lost when we start suffering from dreams of happiness in mansions. Entered into a psychological complex.
Now we lose sight of all evil and hatred, all power and wealth. We want to be so-and-so, we want to be Tamuk, but we don’t want to be human. We want to have it all, but haven’t made the impression in the past. We want to grow without being praised and thanked. I want to get people’s approval by ascending to power. I want to enslave people by suppression and burning. But these things do not make people happy, but rather make them look like inhumans.
You have to pray for your own destiny without comparing with anyone. You have to dream of being rich in effort. One should leave the thought of who is happy and perform one’s duty honestly, keep the soul grateful to the Lord and reduce complaints in the name of life. People lose faith in despair. So you can’t just resign from your story, but you have to think of alternatives.
The life that is mine, I have to enjoy it well-equipped according to my ability and hobbies. Instead of looking at the appearance of others, you have to be diligent and sincere in correcting your own defects. If he settles what others owe to me, if he maintains honesty and diligence in his life, that person is never disappointed. None of us are outside of God’s justice. So if you make your life a chain of complaints, if you lose yourself in despair after seeing the wealth and power of others, no one will save you from the sea of sorrow, but will push you into the middle of the sea. There will be the tomb of a dreamless life.
