Everyone’s life is not the same, so it is futile to compare someone with someone else. If you confuse yourself with others or think of yourself unnecessarily in the place of others, you have to fall into trouble. Why should I bear his anger, and will he bear my anger? Everyone has their own passion. What works for me may not work for someone else, just as what works for others may not work for me.
If it enters the world, it is more fatal. People are struggling with their own family, if they think about other people’s family, they will lose their land. The same applies to close relatives and close friends. Relatives stand by when relatives are in danger. A friend raises his hand in the danger of a friend. But a relative does not interfere in the personal life of a relative, nor does a friend pry into the personal life of a friend. If a relative’s son goes astray or a friend’s wife goes to a club with a stranger, it is a loss to oneself. Only if your son and wife are okay. The reason for helping someone in danger is to get help if you are in danger yourself.
It is the same thing in schools and offices. Get your homework done and come back home. Make friends with classmates or co-workers if necessary, just a few friends, not too many. Wisely, he does not bring classmates or colleagues home. People who have more friends are more mature than they need to be. No classmate or colleague or friend wants others to do well, so they always look for opportunities. In this case, let’s say that if mother and father are true friends, then it is very good.
In later times, wives are sons and daughters, and husbands in the case of daughters. But happy families are rarely seen in this world. Let’s talk about it, now come to the real thing. Be busy with yourself, make your own destiny. Don’t mind other people’s problems, don’t involve yourself unnecessarily in other people’s problems. It will solve your problem very quickly. Everyone is busy with their own problems, where is the opportunity to think about other people’s problems? In this era, who thinks about the problems of others, he is either a great man or a madman.
I used to think about the latter a lot as a child. I used to read many great books. Growing up, I realized that the way you talk about yourself and only compare yourself to yourself, becomes great in life. Those who talk big in the name of national service, they only say all this to keep their mattress. You can be great in life only if you are selfish like them.
