It is more important to understand the depth of sorrow and find out its real cause. It is more important to find out why we are sad than who caused the sorrow. If the reason for the sorrow is logical, then the person/address of the hurter can change, but sorrow is inevitable – it will come. Most of the sorrows we have are our own fault. We did not learn to be careful or did not keep our conscience awake when we were melted by the sweet words of evil people. Has anyone cheated without believing? Every time I cheated, I believed! I expected more than reality! – This is the reality.
Even those who do not cheat can cheat, but they have the strength to cope. The more the innocent cheat, the more they get rewarded. Their ladder to honor/promotion becomes smooth. But the cheater cheats again and again. But the difference is that the sorrows of the cheater do not die, do not get tired or do not leave him. They are connected to life. There is no peace in life, no comfort, or the satisfaction is destroyed – do you think there is a greater punishment than this? A person who cannot sleep peacefully in the presence of others, a person who is tormented by worries, or a person whose companionship is cruel – may such a life not be ours. Disappointment is removed, but one who suffers from false expectations cannot return to a normal life. The dark night does not want the light of dawn to come!
Let sorrow come. Only then will the essence of happiness be appreciated. No matter how big the mistake that is made in ignorance is forgivable, but if the mistake is known with knowledge, then even a small loss should be kept above forgiveness. One who makes a mistake out of pride, one who hurts others out of arrogance, does not get the favor of people. The punishment for every crime is determined if the owner is not kind. A person who cannot be loved by people, even if his life is long, the wind of happiness does not touch and embrace him. People actually live in the hope of happiness. But he who denies the existence of sorrow does not reach the morning of happiness.
We get hurt the most by throwing our nets in the wrong direction. We point fingers and share our sorrows. It is like a disease to see the faults of others in the world without our own fault. We should hold a self-criticism session on how we muddy the clear water and make ourselves upset. But in our lives, the bad name of strangers is discussed, the name of the unknown is slandered. In the roar of self-improvement, we never see the strong, but we stage the chair of the president about who can be cheated and how many lies can be told. We forget the purpose of life. We carry a bad smell. But there were fragrant flowers within reach. We will have to pay the price for our whole life by forgetting not to reach out to the pull of the heart due to laziness.
There is a way to get rid of the sorrow that exists. We have to bow down. We have to dry and heal the wounds that have been created. We have to stand by the side of others’ lives with an oath not to cause anyone any sorrow. Who said that we cannot get entangled in the net of anger in retaliation, retaliation. There is no greater sin than forgiveness, no greater sin than silence. Has someone said something bad? Keep quiet. The right time will answer for you. Just discover your mistakes and apply the ointment. Become a good person. Then, even if you suffer, it will come through the path of purity. There is no greater achievement than mental satisfaction.
