Complaints are made against each other, he does not tell his partner where he is doing what! Where he accumulates wealth, where he spends his time or how he plans his life – these should be discussed openly with each other. But there must be a reason behind not discussing. If life goes on without advice for both of them, at least there will be no happiness – even a madman knows this. But poking about something, causing unnecessary pain or keeping in unnecessary doubt makes the mind upset. Then it is not good to talk anymore. Most of the bad things in our life are due to forgetting to say sorry. However, if we are taught to admit mistakes, even big crimes/problems can be solved with small words.
Conversation comes back to life with someone who shares our mind or opinion! At least understands or tries to understand the person. If, when we talk, we build counter-arguments, build walls to separate the relationship by poking, or insist on the principle that only I am right – then even if everything is there, there is no happiness. If the body lies next to the body, does that mean that the person is there? Even after the mind is up, one may want to stay close to the surroundings, talk with a smile, but the desire to talk to the other person, call them, take care of them, or hold them close is no longer there. The mind does not even want to know how they are, where they are.
Even if the partner is poor or unemployed, small gifts are exchanged. But if after buying something, there is a complaint that the price is cheap, the color is not good, or the person did not like it, the desire to give something else in the future is nipped in the bud. However, if the person shows satisfaction with what is received in the gift, expresses interest, and thanks them, the gift giver’s heart becomes happy. Then he gets motivated to come forward with something new and more. When someone realizes that nothing he has given is not to the liking of the other person, he also stands in front of the mirror and asks himself, ‘Am I on the list of favorites?’
It is polite to praise someone enthusiastically when you receive something from them. Even if you don’t like it, the one who accepts it with enthusiasm wins their heart. A Punjabi or a sari-bangle won’t last a lifetime – so you have to raise your hand with a smile, even if it is to save your mind. You have to express gratitude from your heart. Everyone has the free will to choose people for their life, to give decent comments. But the wealth that comes to life for two days, even if you don’t like it, has to be accepted. You have to say – it’s great. There is glory in following your own wisdom. It is good to remember that the wisdom of others destroys it.
Happiness is not cheap, but it is easy to be happy in life. You have to think simply and walk simply in the alleys of life. When a person sets the mercury of desires high, raises mountains of complaints in the name of others and is fixed on imaginary expectations, he will be unhappy. Hurting someone with words, giving the wrong message in behavior and not giving respect to those who deserve it – it is a grave injustice. Why do we foolishly trade sorrow and pain in pursuit of happiness? All the happiness in the world is tied to the happiness of the home. If we can leave the home with light, it will be easier to walk the dark path of the world. Everything will be beautiful if the inside of my heart becomes beautiful.
