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Tolerance is the cornerstone of a beautiful marriage

Arafat Rahman

Tolerance is the cornerstone of a beautiful marriage

If upgradation costs all the women of the world without the wife to the husband and all the men of the world without the husband to the wife, then peace has fled. Where mutual respect and appreciation are lost, the relationship falters. A husband’s one and only priority should be his wife and so should the wife. The simplicity of Samarka is lost when the third party is the giver of wisdom, the decider of happiness and unhappiness. There will be harmony in the marriage and then there will be chaos. The body and mind will automatically adjust as needed. But calling a third person to revive the relationship of the two will in most cases destroy the beauty of the relationship. There is no shortage of people giving bad advice. In most of the cases of separation, discord between two people or mental turmoil in the society, the supposedly honest advice given by a third party with dishonest intentions is responsible. Even these bad words can come from blood relatives. Moreover, in case of house-to-house quarrels, increasing distance increases the value of the intervening neighbor.

As far as possible, all the problems and disagreements of the couple should be resolved in their discussion. In the question of defamation, it is necessary for one person to be aggressive in venting anger and the other to be defensive. If the mood of the two people is not sour, there is no possibility of any kind of obstacle. Sacrifice’s modified name is Samsara. Where one will understand, tolerate and respect each other. If one behaves childishly, it is very useful for another to behave maturely. If there is no balance between anger and grief, happiness in the relationship does not increase. It’s not right to confuse life with the makey celebrations of the neighborhood, the feigned happiness on social media. Drama-cinema and the reality of life are not the same. If two people hold each other tightly through the ups and downs of the world, then peace will come.

The most important thing about relationships is trust. No one can be trusted for someone by guarding. You have to keep your promises. Interesting options will pop up all around, bombarded with ads but not lost. No one is faithful because he does not keep his word. Nature has a balance principle. If you cheat, you must cheat. This fair of knock-knocks may gather two days before or after, but Rob’s declaration is no exception. Cheating criteria is not just abuse of mind and body. ETN can also be in a wider range. Punishment can also be distributed by running out of sustenance, changing time or losing relief. A similar truth and time awaits him who is like the man in mentality. Even the sphere of companionship cannot overcome this fact.

Life is beautiful if arranged. Marriage can be a playground of friendship or a prison of turmoil. One wrong person can turn all dreams upside down. That is why it is important to know people. It is not right to share the news of the house as long as the two people can handle their relationship problems themselves and make a decision. Sharing one’s own sorrow increases it as well as displaying happiness too often attracts attention. The well-wisher who attends every little problem should measure how beneficial it is for both of you. Handing over problems to those with ill will means sowing the seeds of a thousand more problems. It is better to hang around in the balcony of the court than to expect a solution from this class of people. Even if it causes some loss of honor, at least it does not have to be unrelated.

There is no family without a few problems. Children and some other people are involved with every family. It is easy to think of separation but nothing is more depressing than that. One should make the last effort to stay no matter what sacrifices are made. No one can guarantee that what is ugly today will remain ugly forever or what is beautiful today will be beautiful forever. Time changes, fate also changes. The best investment to reap the benefits of time is patience. Trust is the foundation of every relationship. So that it is not shaken by anyone’s behavior. It is important to understand a person – who is involved in life. If you can’t let go of the ego, the relationship won’t return. Marriage is the sum of the similarities and differences. Accept and adapt. There is nothing more beautiful than the world. Let the journey of two people be beautiful, avoiding someone’s bad advice. Let the mutual respect be so great that one will squirm in the other’s emptiness. Where intrusion by third parties shall be forever prohibited.

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