Beware of people with two-faced characters – those who show you one face and hide a hideous face behind you. If you feel that, boycott those people for life. You don’t need many people to be good in life. Even being alone is good if the person close to you is an enemy. Who hurts you, hurts you or conspires – does he want your well-being? It is better to be with a stray dog than to be a friend of such a person.
Let there be a handful of people in life. With whom life becomes enjoyable in any environment. Many people are the cause of many illnesses. Stay away from those who defame you in their absence, do harmful things whenever they get a chance and stab you in the wound when you trust them. Keep yourself safe. Maintain a safe distance from those who hurt you behind your back by mixing poison with the honey of praise.
Face-to-face friendship and hidden group rescue – The line of such people around is long. Whoever breaks your trust will harm you as soon as he finds a trap. You will pour honey into your acting in such a way that there is no room for distrust. You will take advantage of it by trickery. Pain will remain in your heart, tears will remain in your eyes. It is not people far away but people close to you who are the cause of most sorrow.
One of the most difficult things in life is getting to know people. We have trusted the wrong people in most cases throughout our lives. Even inhumans look like humans. Those who are supposed to be our own people will not be afraid to speak. However, those who win hearts by winning hearts and becoming our own, when their interests are fulfilled, they also end up hurting our hearts. The main reason for most of these is people close to us, staying up all night or being forced to be alone. People far away have very little ability to cause sorrow. We are wary of external enemies.
People who, when we meet them in person, are full of good words and are full of praise, are severely hurt when they shoot arrows of pain behind their backs. A loved one is defaming you in front of someone – this scene is one of the most ugly scenes in the world. Yet people create this ugly scene with care. There is no benefit, yet people come together and spread untrue and baseless words in the name of those who are absent. However, discussing ourselves would create an opportunity to correct mistakes. People do not do that. Why don’t they do it? – I don’t know!
Let’s change. Don’t defame someone else in your or my words. Don’t say anything in someone’s absence that would upset me if someone said it in my absence. I can’t imagine how terrible the consequences of backbiting can be. If you have to say something behind someone’s back, let it be good. Let us refrain from slander, lies, or intentional truths in someone’s name. There is a mark of merit in being trusted by people. Let there be no such behavior in our lives, even if someone hates us.
