There is no greater sincerity than mutual respect. It doesn’t matter if you gave someone a gift, invited someone for a meal or not. Even if you don’t sit next to each other and talk, you can be your own if you have mutual respect. Gave expensive gifts, fed good food but did not give respect – no use. As human beings, no matter how big or small, everyone expects fair respect from everyone. Laughing at someone with self-respect makes him feel awful. Whoever is after you will never be yours if you keep his hunger for respect unsatisfied. Be it friend or wife, young to old, hotel clerk to street beggar – everyone expects respect according to their position. When one forgets to respect others by thinking of him as ego-superiority, he paves the way for his own humiliation.
In the universe we live in, there is no better and more precious gift than respect. Respect melts as an expression of good-mindedness, respect and love. Mutual understanding, heartfelt friendship or refined words and deeds are the areas and practices of respect. It is very important to be able to respect each other in friendship or marriage, at work or in religion – in fact, in all areas of life. Teaching to respect all the human qualities is the best. Respect must be learned from the family, learned by oneself or learned about religion. But sadly, the truth is that many of us lack the sense of mutual respect. We want to be respected but we don’t want to give respect to others. The attitude that I am the master and others are the slaves in relation to each other leads to lack of heart.
Respect – Valued behavior that is mutually exchangeable. It is unfair to expect respect from someone by disrespecting them. Honor and dishonor follow the same formula. The amount of respect you give to someone, you will get back several times. If you disrespect someone, you will be disrespected in many ways. Respect business is an idea that never returns without profit. Respect even the worst person in society, he will return the purest respect. A field of honor creates a field of earning lifelong honor with a one-time investment. If you give someone the respect they deserve in society, at work or at any stage of the journey, you will not be disrespected wherever you meet throughout your life. Rather, you will find a heart humbled in gratitude. A man may deny a debt of money, default on a debt of interest, but be ungrateful in paying a debt of honor—few are.
You should show more respect to your people. Disregarding friends, saying whatever comes to mind as a marital relationship, insulting one’s own child or not appreciating them as one’s own – these are not good results. When someone’s personality is hurt, when someone’s image is damaged, he strikes back – no matter how good he is. If someone is dishonored, he suffers from existential crisis. In many cases, senior colleagues scold junior colleagues excessively, bosses bully subordinates, or teachers bully a class full of students. These are inappropriate. If someone wants to change, he should say it alone. The scavenger also has self-respect, he also stays in the society with children and family. Therefore, it is not right to disrespect anyone who has power, strength or opportunity.
Sometimes the consequences of disrespectful words are worse than physical injuries. From family to society, from politics to state – the distance between each other, the turmoil at its root is the lack of mutual respect. Where there is a lack of respect, rifts form in relationships. It is difficult to survive in the world of dishonor. Intolerant attitude, poker of communalism paves the way for disrespect. Hurting someone should be highly reprehensible. It is inappropriate to differentiate between Amir and Fakir by prioritizing the identity in which we are all human beyond rank. The son of a President has the same respect for his father as the son of a farm laborer in Char area has the same respect for his father. So showing respect to people as human beings is part of humanity. I can’t give expensive gifts to anyone, I can’t invite them to eat at Petpur, but I can’t deprive anyone of expensive ornaments like honor. If I don’t respect others, I also have to live in the loss of respect. You have no respect in the society – imagine what a horrible image! Dishonored contempt-neglect!
