The cause of the heart’s sorrow is one’s own people. No one can fly in and add sorrow to someone’s life. Because there is no need to care for someone who is not my relative. When someone who stays with the heart, sits together or tells stories of sorrow and happiness – when he lashes out at the heart, the pain is felt intensely. People do not become like people with a little sorrow. Someone’s feelings become empty with a little blow. When the people who care for you break your heart with love, a severe storm rises in the depths of sorrow. Then the will to live gradually fades. The colors and flavors of life fall away effortlessly.
A person who lives in thoughts, whose faith resides – such a close person, a person who is close to you breaks the house of hope. Without finding a place in the heart, without knowing weakness, no one can actually destroy someone’s mind and heart! There is no fear of distant people. The pain of burning the heart does not arise when someone else hits. The person who is not considered as your own cannot be blamed for breaking your heart. The one who is not in thought comes and goes like winter and summer. The one who is in thought is mixed with life like skin. He has to be protected from the dew of winter, from the harshness of summer. Like skin, people of like mind, people of like mind become our own. There is thought around them. When the people of the house make us sad, the heart calls for the arrow of tears.
Whom to fear? People are not afraid of others. There is no concern for distant people. They do not come to stay. They move away when their needs are fulfilled. When their interests are fulfilled, they say bye bye. But the people of our own, the people close to us? Let them hold on to their promises to get them, let them quarrel for the sake of happiness. That too, let them never break trust. When someone by blood, someone from the family or someone close to us cuts off the relationship with a knife for their own interests, it is immense sorrow. People who are far away do not come in dreams but for their own interests. But the people close to us? Do they live in dreams not for their own interests? Let them not establish misrule and misrule by getting the seat of their loved ones.
The distrust in family relationships, the lack of attraction towards each other, cannot be manipulated by a distant person. A distant person cannot make you cry at night and cry. He cannot give you a single sorrow. A distant person cannot even teach you how to live alone! The enemy outside has a watchful eye on that. He becomes aware of it and sits at a distance. But if those who have merged with the heart, with whom the destiny has coincided or for whom you live turn their eyes, turn their backs or rob the house of trust, then there is no taste of living. Happiness is sacrificed by the oblique comments of your own people. Then life seems like a vessel of pain. When your life is over, you should rather live – filled with thoughts!
It is difficult to bear the betrayal of a loved one. The darkness behind the mask of your own people is unbearable. Your own neglect changes the color of life. Let no one behave with this life in a way that changes the definition of living. A life that is miserable, a life that is disappointing or a life that is a lamp without hope – in that life there is a story of losing a loved one. A life that is deceived by its own people, a life that is filled with sadness, is afraid of seeing clouds. When someone talks about hope in that life, doubts increase. It seems that another wave of heartbreak will rise. Life is actually what is given as a gift by the behavior, words and deeds of a loved one. If the person close to you is the wrong person, that pain cannot be compensated in one lifetime. The atonement for the wrong person cannot be made in one lifetime.
Life is actually the sum of experiences. There is good behavior, there is bad behavior. How many people have had to reach here in so many colors and styles. How many emotions have been sacrificed for the wrong person. How many hopes have not been saved or could not be saved – then the time was not right. Let there be no stain on the one who lives by trusting his own people – let there be effort. Let time fulfill whatever promises he makes, let there be effort from his own people. Life is two days, so don’t let sorrow get too close to you, so that the waves of happiness remain beyond your senses. Keep your loved ones, your close ones, or your beloved ones close to you, and keep them sweet in your mouth. This is life – you can touch them with your heart, you can hit them with stones.
