As a mother, the career of raising children is the toughest. Working moms don’t struggle to handle office responsibilities the same way they get overwhelmed with child rearing. A full-time mother’s story is different. But for a mother who works 9-5 and takes care of children 24/7, the struggle is even tougher. It is lucky for the male race that she can keep her smile even after handling everything. But some men do not understand the meaning of wife. How many times has a father smeared his little child’s urine on himself, how many times has he cleaned himself after pooping? Many fathers are limited in responsibilities and can proudly claim, ‘I am a father’.
How many parents know how many times a day children eat? How many husbands try to know how many wasted clothes need to be washed in the morning? Children are growing day by day. Some husbands may be released from responsibility with money, but the mother who has to leave the house to take care of the family and children and after the office work has to sit with the household dishes – if that mother does not get support from the family, then it is unfortunate. How many people’s minds can be saved by a mother who has children? If colleagues do not understand the meaning of mother colleagues, if the society is not supportive and if the house does not stand in favor, then there is no chance to keep grief, to talk about the suffering and to cover the shame.
The entire society, the state should stand for a working mother. For the sake of the child, the mother who cannot sleep properly at night, the mother who leaves the nursing baby at home and goes to work, the mother who takes care of everything in the house, the mother does not get the sympathy and support she logically deserves, the pain is indescribable. None of us grew up without mother’s care and sacrifice. Our children will not grow up without their mothers’ arms. It is the responsibility of men to show love to the mother who takes care of the child, to support her mentally and physically, to help her work. It is not right to put all the responsibilities of children and family on the shoulders of the wife alone. Family of two. If there are more people in the family then to each of them. If everyone does not help each other, the children growing up in that world do not learn human values, respect for women, respect for elders and love for the younger ones.
The proper development of the child in the family should be the main priority. If the life of the mother is not made easier, the child will not get proper care. Mother will cook, raise the children, serve the husband and manage the office – protecting everyone’s mind – if the man keeps this expectation, then the most damage will be to the child and the distance will increase in the marriage. Women should also be valued as human beings. His mental condition may also deteriorate, his body may deteriorate. It is inhumane to expect him to play the role of a machine in all work. Talking, punching or any kind of torture without giving value to him or her will directly harm the child’s mental health.
A working woman has to give all the support to a working mother. He deserves respect. Sharing family responsibilities makes it easier to live well. A child who sees his mother being treated like a maid since childhood, silently digesting all the words and insults, that child also does not learn to take care of his mother at the end of the day. Women will cook, clean the house and men will come from outside and lie in the house all day long, spending time with their mobile phones – even children go astray when they see this. Husband and wife should be sympathetic to each other to raise the child in a good mind. If the two are not good friends, the normal development of the child is hindered. If working mothers are not supported, this social state will not have healthy citizens in the future. A woman’s life will end in sorrow, but no one will be left out of the complaint. In order for the mother to be a role model for the child, the whole family should be supportive of the mother. If the mother is working, everyone should be kinder to her. The interest of the child should be paramount in the family.
